The Rumours are True…

24 12 2010

I am officially off the market.

It took a lot of secret planning, patience, guts and a long call with my parents, but it was all worth it.  Nathan proposed to me in Little Italy in NYC on December 21st.

Nathan and I celebrated our engagement in the midst of the hustle and bustle of NYC with great friends, tasty food and bubbly drinks – we even had our own little paparazzi (Jonathan) snapping photos.

For all the crazy adventures that we have  had while traveling on the road, you can imagine that this adventure makes for a good story as well.  To share one of the stories, we stopped in for a celebratory drink at our place – Wolfgang’s Steakhouse in Tribeca, to spread our news and surprise some friends, and guess who was there?  Wolfgang himself (not Puck).  Nathan walked right up to him and told him we just got engaged and we were treated to a bottle of champagne and some heartfelt congratulations.

Vancouver.  Toronto.  Connecticut.  Minnesota.  Victoria.  California.  NYC.  New Jersey.  New Zealand.  Oklahoma.  Illinois.  Atlanta.  Halifax.  Detroit.

We shared our news with friends and family in all parts of the world.   But if you can believe it, the very first person I shared the news of our engagement with was not my family, or my best friends, or my coworkers but……..the bus boy at the restaurant.  I was sooo excited I couldn’t help but blurt it out as he was clearing away the chocolate lava cake and panacotta.  And the most surprised people to hear the news of our engagement, the commuters on the New Jersey transit bus leaving the Port Authority that fateful night.  As we boarded the bus, Nathan, glowing from the excitement and a bottle of bubbly, announced to the bus, ‘We just got engaged!  Clap it up people. Clap it up!’. I didn’t hear him say this (surprisingly) and I walked through a round of applause and shouts of ‘Congratulations’ from everyone on the bus.  It’s going to be a tough job keeping up with him, but I think I’m up for the challenge.

Thank you to everyone who has been a part of our journey and has shared in our experiences, our adventures, and our misadventures.  We are extremely happy to start this new chapter in our lives and to have been able to share this moment as a family with Jonathan.





Cherry – Bar – Bar

8 11 2010

I’m not at all embarrassed to admit that I may have yelled out, “The Lee’s are in the house!” at 2AM in a Vegas casino.  What else is there to do when you’re sitting with your brother and his girlfriend at the penny slots and ding ding ding ding ding ding….the lights are going off right, left, and center.  Jami (James) and I are killing it!  While unfortunately Sarah squandered her fortune ($5)….sorry Sarah.

But when I hit a CHERRY – BAR – BAR…  Well everyone knows what happens when you hit the CHERRY – BAR – BAR with a TRIPLE DIAMOND!!.  That’s right!  Winner Winner Winner!  We all had to stop and pause while my winnings kept adding up.  And when you’re at a 2 cent machine, the pennies can take a long time to accumulate.

Like any smart slot player, I immediately cashed out.

But as I sat watching my brother play (and win), I couldn’t help it.  I slipped that ticket back in the machine….and I’m back in the game!

BAR – BAR – CHERRY!  Wait a minute, how come that doesn’t mean anything?  7 – 7 – CHERRY!  Surely that has to be a winner!  Why don’t these combinations mean anything?  As Jami cashed out his winnings, I couldn’t help but feel like my win was just one press of the button away.  Until…I had to accept the inevitable.  I quit while I was ahead, and left the slots, licking my wounds.  Not to worry, VEGAS didn’t take my fortunes away!  I left the casino with my winnings – 64 cents!

To keep our monies in our pocket, we all distracted ourselves with other Vegas entertainment – Love: The Beatles Cirque du Soleil, the Bellagio buffet, dinner at Mon Ami Gabi at Paris, champagne toasts in the hotel suite at sunset, and walking the strip hand in hand.

My will power is weak and while waiting to go into the Love theatre I thought I’d try my hand at a 25 cent slot machine.  I don’t think I’ve ever lost money faster than I did in this moment.

And so, the truth comes out.  I leave Vegas, MINUS $19.36.  I shake my fists of fury!  LAS VEGAS, YOU WIN AGAIN!!!





Ding Dong….Ding Dong…

4 11 2010

The wedding bells chimed on October 24th, 2010 in Las Vegas, NV.

I’m sure it’s true that the wedding bells chime in Vegas every day, at all times of the day, especially around ‘Last Call’.  Oh wait, there is no ‘Last Call’.

But this time, there were 10 very special witnesses to these wedding bells.  And I was one of them!

MY SISTER GOT MARRIED!!!

It was a beautiful garden ceremony with little white lights casting a romantic glow on the festivities.  I led the way, bouquet in hand, and my sister walked down the aisle to an instrumental version of Bittersweet Symphony.

People have all sorts of opinions about Vegas – place for a fun friend’s weekend, the ‘black hole’ that stole all your money, THE place to get into trouble during a stag/staggette party – but it truly was the perfect place for a picturesque wedding.  Take a walk and you can be in Paris, NYC and Italy, all in the same night.

It was a great weekend for our two families to join together and share experiences with great laughs, tasty food, fun entertainment and the ‘ting ting ting’ of the slot machine win (well, some of us won).

Congratulations Nicki & Justin!





Olympic Memories

7 03 2010

After 16 days of checking the CTV Olympic Iphone App every hour, spending every evening falling asleep to speed skating, figure skating, bobsledding and other winter sporting events and pointing out to Nathan that although the US may have more medals in total, Canada has more GOLD medals….the Olympics are over.

Even though I only had a chance to take in the Olympic frenzy for the opening weekend, the memories are definitely going to be lasting.   Where else other than Disneyland do you chase people down the street yelling, “can we take a picture with you?” AND when are they standing around (like Disney characters) waiting to have their picture taken?

When else would I drag myself out of bed (after only 4 hours of sleep) to get on a bus while it’s still dark outside to go to an arena where there “may or may not be athletes present”? Lucky for me, there were athletes present during the pairs figure skating training session, and also lucky for me, I was not the only one that got sucked into paying for tickets to a non-event, with no promise of athletes showing up except for the zamboni man (who, I have to say, lived up to my expectations!).

When else will I ever LOVE the fact that I look exactly like everyone else in Vancouver and exasperate my friends more when I wander off and blend into the crowd – EVERYONE is dressed in a Canada toque, scarf, and red mittens – and the majority of people – Asian!

When else would I be at a Sweden vs Switzerland hockey game yelling my head off and annoying my neighbours while clanging a commemorative cow bell?  Maybe the bigger question is, when else will I ever have another  commemorative cow bell?  And, is there ever going to be another time when I’m running down the streets of Vancouver thinking that I’m running towards Wayne Gretzky only to realize that we’re running in the wrong direction, and then get stopped by the police to make way for Vice President Joe Biden’s motorcade?

All I can say with certainty is that I have never had more Canadian pride than seeing people dressed in red, with Canadian sweatshirts, scarves, toques, red Olympic mittens and Canada Flags draped around their shoulders hosting the world in my favourite Canadian city – Vancouver.

The only true way to experience the Olympic Games is when its in your hometown and you’re in the heart of it.





OH CANADA!

11 02 2010

The rain didn’t dampen the excitement of the crowd as the Olympic Flame was marched through the streets and we came out in our Red & White with the best of them!





A Christmas Miracle

31 12 2009

We spent Christmas in Parker, Arizona aka my place of ultimate tranquility.  

Every day something random would occupy all of our attention.  One day it was toy helicopters (the family seriously doubts my flying ability, I believe the words ‘kamikaze pilot’ were mentioned once or twice).   Another day we focused on all of the Christmas presents that have been given in the past, and the phrase, ‘It’s the thought that counts’ became the token phrase of the day. 

On one specific day I looked out the window and saw something fluttering on the ground – I thought it was a leaf.  Until I looked closer, and then I freaked out, ‘hummingbird down!  hummingbird down!’  There was a hummingbird flailing on the ground under the feeder.  It looked like his wing was broken, sprained or dislocated.  We brought him inside and did what any other helpful person would do – we took pictures of him. 

Nathan was ready to “end it”.  You know what I mean.   Before we could resort to that, we took him to the front yard near the rosemary bushes and left him while we went for a walk.  When I got back, the feeder had been brought down to him and he had been placed on it.  Although done with the best of intentions, there was no way he could feed where he was placed.  So, being the lover of hummingbirds that he is, Nathan’s dad went out to help our little friend out.  He moved him to a better position, and with a quick drink of the feeder, all of a sudden the hummingbird took flight.  It’s a Christmas Miracle!  For the rest of the day all we heard was, ‘These hands have healing powers!’





More Asian than I thought

11 10 2009

After all of these years, my asian roots are finally showing their colours.   Who knew that all of my childhood treats were so foreign to everyone, to the extent that the US/Canada border patrol would question if  ‘shrimp crackers’ were banned in the US.  It possibly  may have been because a travel companion, that shall remain unnamed, decided it was a good idea to put my shrimp cracker and chocolate purchase in the Stow ‘n Go compartment, after saying, ‘No, we didn’t purchase anything today’.  I think I may be blacklisted at the border for trying to smuggle in shrimp flavoured chips. 

Ever since my visit to Vancouver in August I have not been able to get my favourite childhood meal of sticky rice out of my head.  Over and over I’ve been thinking about the recipe and what I need: chinese sausage, sweet rice, dried shrimp and scallops, dried mushrooms.  Normal ingredients for me, perhaps not for everyone.  This weekend we crossed the border to peruse the asian food selection in the great metropolis of Windsor, Ontario.  I know that when you think of Windsor, ON, you too think of crazy multicultural foods.  Great Metropolis it is not!  The China Town in Windsor is more of a China Street.  But, after a delicious dim sum experience, it was off to the Chinese market where I became the proud new owner of White Rabbit candies, lychee jelly shots, and cranberry cakes.  Just the thought of these childhood treats brought back memories of going to the old chinese food store with my mom and wandering around dark, jam-packed aisles of dried bean curd, salted fish, candied ginger,  and little cranberry cakes that look like pennies.    And I repeat, what seemed so normal growing up, caused the US/Canada border patrol guards to analyze everything in this bag of goodies and say ‘this is all new to me.  What does ‘haw’  mean?  Cranberry?”  And, if you know how ‘un-asian’ I really am, you know that all I could say was, ‘I have no idea what ‘haw’ means, all I know is that I call them cranberry cakes, and they look like pennies’.

So we made it across the border with our bounty, and much to my dismay, I had to leave all of the sticky rice ingredients behind.  Because, although I’ve managed to find them now, I still need to find somewhere to cook this meal, since a hotel room is not exactly the best setting to make sticky rice. 

Perhaps the funniest part of this whole weekend was when Nathan came back from the grocery store when we were back in Detroit, with a proud look on his face and acting like he had found me the best present in the whole world.  Earlier this week I complained that because all of our traveling this summer I had missed out on the lychee fruit season, and I love lychee.   While in Windsor we met up with friends who also raved about lychee fruit, and I showed Nathan a picture of one from a can. 

So, we get back to Detroit, Nathan goes to  the grocery store, and when he comes back he has a little plastic produce bag filled with something that looks suspiciously like lychee.  Oh my god.  I jumped up and grabbed them from him and ripped open the bag.  Those of you who know lychee can imagine my excitement. So I open up the bag, and this is what I find….rambutan ftuit

What is that? I have no idea what that is. 

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It turns out, they are called “Rambutan Fruit” and although they are not lychee, they are from the same family.  So, even though I hadn’t eaten this fruit before, Nathan tossed me the car keys, and I used these keys to puncture this weird hairy shell and split open the fruit to find an oddly similar looking treat.  It’s not bad this rambutan, not quite as flavourful as lychee, but not bad. 

So all in all I’m realizing that my tastebuds are more asian than I thought they were.  And lucky Nathan is being introduced to a whole new world of penny-looking cranberry cakes, rice-paper covered White Rabbit candies and jelly lychee shots, that he’s  never even heard of before.





Westcoast Whirlwind

17 09 2009

Oh, Canada, it’s good to be home!

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The westcoast at its finest is a mixture of mountains, waterfront views, seafood and good friends.   And that is exactly what was in store for us during our 96 hour stay in Vancouver. 

From the minute our plane touched the ground we had every minute of our trip accounted for, not that I’m complaining since our plans consisted of  ‘all-u-can-eat sushi’, ferry rides, drinking on patios overlooking sea planes, dim sum, wedding festivities, and all in all good times. 

During our side trip to Vancouver Island we took the ferry over and saw the gorgeous views and I got to revisit my old stomping grounds and just had  to visit the beach where I used to go clam digging.  Just our luck – we even saw some seals out in the water!

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On the island we spent the afternoon with old friends, catching up on a patio overlooking the seaplanes and finished off our evening at The Dinghy Dock Pub, which you can only get to by boat.  All in all a great way to spend a day on Vancouver Island (even if we didn’t get to see any killer whales). 

Friday brought on a lot of family time and fancy dressing for my cousin’s wedding, which took place at a golf course with panoramic views of the city.  As expected, the evening was filled with LOTS of family photos, jokes about the infamous chicken dance and a race to the cupcake table for dessert (FYI – I won, however, I may have been the only one racing…)

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 After filling ourselves up with way too much good dim sum with my family Saturday morning, we spent our afternoon and evening hanging out by the water with friends.   It was very interesting coming back to a place that I called home for so long and introducing it to someone else.  Like in a lot of cases, what seems normal to you is weird and unexpected to another.  This trip made me realize that maybe the comings and goings of Vancouverites are a little weirder than I thought. 

While we were walking along the downtown waterfront Nathan commented that he felt like there were no rules in Vancouver, no presence of authority and people could do whatever they wanted.  Just as I was firmly objecting to this observation, we passed by a garden of lounge pillows in the middle of a grassy area.  How considerate that there are pillowy napping areas on the grass, just in case you get tired………..weird.  Ten minutes later we hear music and then a parade of bicycles ride past us.  This wouldn’t be so strange on the bike path of the seawall, except that in this parade was a women singing and playing the guitar as she was being pushed in a carriage.  It was like a parade of roving musicians.   I didn’t have anything left to say after that.

After walking along the seawall, checking out the starfish in the water below, we ended our day hopping from waterfront patio to waterfront patio.   

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And to cap off our busy day, we took in the final rays of a beautiful Vancouver sunset.

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My New Nephew

29 01 2009

Welcome Jackie Chan to the Lee Family. 

My brother got a kitten!

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