A Year in Review

10 01 2010

A review of my ‘Things To Do’ List for 2009:

–   See a Presidential Inauguration  √

–   Attend the AVN afterparty at LAX in Las Vegas  √

–   Go scuba diving in Mexico and inadvertently act like a dying fish to attract a barracuda  √

–  Learn how to sail without falling overboard  √

–  Live in New York City for 4 months of the year √

–  Pet dolphins

As of December 30, 2009, I had one more item to check off my list – Pet Dolphins.  The original plan was to spend the last few days of 2009 in Corpus Christi, TX on a sailboat amid waters full of frolicking dolphins – THIS WAS MY CHANCE!! 

After one afternoon of sailing, and one night sleeping in the V Berth (note to self: my habit of sleeping diagonally does not work in a v berth), the weather turned and it was cold and rainy so we all packed up and headed to warmer climates.  The closest I got to dolphins was watching them follow our ferry, feeding on the fish it churned up. 

But I am nothing if not determined to reach the goals that I set for myself.   And since we ended up in San Antonio, TX for Dec. 31st – SEAWORLD here we come!

A whole pool full of dolphins frolicking and just waiting for me to come by and pet them (and perhaps toss them a few fish as well).   I was ready to go with 8 fish, ready to feed and pet at least 4 different dolphins.  Well, someone had a different plan for me.  This chubby dolphin (the biggest one in the pool) picked me to be his meal ticket and would not let me go.  I fed him a couple of fish, just barely skimmed my fingertips on his forehead, and tried to move down the pool side to see other dolphins.  Not only did he follow me, but he got mad at me and flicked water at me.  Seriously, I got told off by a dolphin!  But, I did reach my goal and checked off that last item on my list. 

Not only did we spend time with the dolphins at Seaworld but we fed the sealions, and saw the Seamore & Clyde show and Shamu!





Good Friends

15 11 2009

While in Toronto…

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Taking a Bite out of the Big Apple

8 11 2009

On our most recent trip to New York City Nathan and I decided to be real tourists.  We felt like it was time to take that Grey Line tourbus, sit on the upper deck and listen to the rehearsed stories of the tourbus operator, take photos of all of the New York sights, bond with other tourists and talk about how much trash there is in the city! 

This was the plan, that is until we realized that it would cost us $90 a person to see many of the same sights that we had already seen and listen to the tour operator tell us stories of the city that may or may not be true (we know that Jay Z doesn’t really live in that building….)

So, instead we decided to take an “EATING TOUR OF NYC”.  And if you think about it, is there any better tour to be taking?? 

We unofficially started our tour at Wolfgang’s Steakhouse (www.wolfgangssteakhouse.com) in Tribeca having dinner with friends.  The best appetizer that I’ve ever had is their specialty of thick-sliced Canadian Bacon.  It’s like a bacon steak!  After this savoury appetizer we also indulged in a tomato and fresh mozzarella salad (Caprese Salad), Rib Eye steaks to share with German Potatoes and Creamed Spinach as sides.  And, to make this an authentic New York local dinner, in the city that never sleeps, this ‘dinner’ took place at about 9:00 at night and was accompanied with glass after glass of complimentary red wine.

The next day we decided to get really serious about our eating tour.  After listening to a live version of Frank Sinatra’s My Way, we knew we had found our first stop – Patsy’s Pizzeria (www.patsyspizzeriany.com)Frank Sinatra mentioned this pizzeria in his song, and after some research we found out that this place was the founder of the New York Style thin crust pizza.  After walking from the Port Authority to 60th St & 3rd Ave, our stomachs were growling and we were not disappointed when we walked into the rustic, family-style pizzeria with the coal-burning oven.  One large original Margherita pizza coming up!  When it arrived, the crust was thin and crispy, but chewy at the same time; the sauce was hot and the fresh mozzarella was melting off of the pie.  The flavours were infused with a few basil leaves.  Possibly THE best pizza I’ve ever had. 

After taking a walk through Central Park to walk off the pizza and prepare for our next eating destination, we went back to 60th street to try out the famous Frozen Hot Chocolate at Serendipity (www.serendipity3.com), a restaurant that was featured in the movie Serendipity with Kate Beckinsale and John Kusack, and a beverage that has been featured on Oprah Winfrey’s Favourite Things list.   As New York City’s first coffee house boutique, with Tiffany lamps,  pink walls, old fashioned chandeliers, cake top decorations, etc, the interior of this place is the definition of “kitsch”.  The infamous Frozen Hot Chocolate is created with a mixture of 7 different chocolates and blended with ice, cream and topped with whipped cream and chocolate shavings. 

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As we made our way back through the city streets, we took a detour to Crumbs (www.crumbs.com), a bakery specializing in designer cupcakes.  Of course we had to pick up a couple of cupcakes to go.  You just can’t leave red velvet cupcakes behind!

Our final stop for the day was our local sushi restaurant in Times Square, Aoki (www.aokinyc.com) that, despite the constant traffic of tourists and locals, knows us when we stop by. 

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The next few days of our visit we were in Brooklyn, but this didn’t stop us from continuing on our eating tour.  Lenny’s Clam Bar (www.lennysclambar.com)A small, family-owned restaurant, specializing in all things shellfish and pasta, among other things.  We loved it so much that we went there 2 days in a row and enjoyed the house specialty of Baked Littleneck Clams, Seafood Salad, which was chock-full of scungilli (conch), calamari, and shrimp and traditional pastas.  

We also had the opportunity to explore downtown Brooklyn with an old friend and went to a quaint French Bistro called Le Petit March (www.bkbistro.com) where we met the owner and enjoyed fresh mussles and crunchy oysters.   And for dessert, we were taken to Cake Man Raven (www.cakemanraven.com), a place famous for its Red Velvet Cake. 

For our last day in the city we had an opportunity to meet up with a friend for brunch and a broadway musical, In the Heights.  For brunch we continued our eating tour and enjoyed pumpkin bread and lobster eggs benedict at Blue Fin (www.brguestrestaurants.com), a restaurant located at the W Hotel in Times Square.  After brunch and the musical, we decided to bookend our eating tour by returning to Patsy’s Pizzeria and Crumbs Bakery to repeat our initial visits.

Finally, after 6 days and 9 restaurants, our eating tour is DONE!

 

 

 





Viva Las Vegas

21 09 2009

Although not as eventful as my last trip to Vegas during the Adult Film Industry awards, Las Vegas + Traci Lee + Erin Tramble = tons of poolside festivities, taking advantage of the free drinks at the Manager’s Reception, tickets to The Lion King, partying it up at the Hoot Loot slot machine at Planet Hollywood, yummy buffets AND more pink jam-filled meringues than you should ever eat. 

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Westcoast Whirlwind

17 09 2009

Oh, Canada, it’s good to be home!

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The westcoast at its finest is a mixture of mountains, waterfront views, seafood and good friends.   And that is exactly what was in store for us during our 96 hour stay in Vancouver. 

From the minute our plane touched the ground we had every minute of our trip accounted for, not that I’m complaining since our plans consisted of  ‘all-u-can-eat sushi’, ferry rides, drinking on patios overlooking sea planes, dim sum, wedding festivities, and all in all good times. 

During our side trip to Vancouver Island we took the ferry over and saw the gorgeous views and I got to revisit my old stomping grounds and just had  to visit the beach where I used to go clam digging.  Just our luck – we even saw some seals out in the water!

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On the island we spent the afternoon with old friends, catching up on a patio overlooking the seaplanes and finished off our evening at The Dinghy Dock Pub, which you can only get to by boat.  All in all a great way to spend a day on Vancouver Island (even if we didn’t get to see any killer whales). 

Friday brought on a lot of family time and fancy dressing for my cousin’s wedding, which took place at a golf course with panoramic views of the city.  As expected, the evening was filled with LOTS of family photos, jokes about the infamous chicken dance and a race to the cupcake table for dessert (FYI – I won, however, I may have been the only one racing…)

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 After filling ourselves up with way too much good dim sum with my family Saturday morning, we spent our afternoon and evening hanging out by the water with friends.   It was very interesting coming back to a place that I called home for so long and introducing it to someone else.  Like in a lot of cases, what seems normal to you is weird and unexpected to another.  This trip made me realize that maybe the comings and goings of Vancouverites are a little weirder than I thought. 

While we were walking along the downtown waterfront Nathan commented that he felt like there were no rules in Vancouver, no presence of authority and people could do whatever they wanted.  Just as I was firmly objecting to this observation, we passed by a garden of lounge pillows in the middle of a grassy area.  How considerate that there are pillowy napping areas on the grass, just in case you get tired………..weird.  Ten minutes later we hear music and then a parade of bicycles ride past us.  This wouldn’t be so strange on the bike path of the seawall, except that in this parade was a women singing and playing the guitar as she was being pushed in a carriage.  It was like a parade of roving musicians.   I didn’t have anything left to say after that.

After walking along the seawall, checking out the starfish in the water below, we ended our day hopping from waterfront patio to waterfront patio.   

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And to cap off our busy day, we took in the final rays of a beautiful Vancouver sunset.

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New York Natives

20 08 2009

Who would have thought that a year ago, I had never been to “The Big Apple”, the ‘city that never sleeps’, New York City.  Who would have thought that I would be able to walk into a store and see a picture on the wall and know exactly where in NYC that picture was taken.  Who would have thought that I could watch an episode of Sex in the City and remember strolling by that very restaurant.

The time has come that I truly feel like a New York Native.

And, like true New York Natives, we avoid Times Square at all costs, and while walking down the streets find ourselves saying ‘keep walking, ugh get these tourists out of here!’

In the cumulative 3+ months that we’ve spent in the city, we’ve been store keepers in Brooklyn, wandered around churches in the Bronx, sipped martinis and eaten at the Spice Market in Manhatten, and rubbed shoulders with Mayor Bloomberg in Harlem.  There is only one more boro left to conquer – QUEENS.

Our latest adventure:  Vacationing at the Jersey Shores on Long Beach Island (or LBI as the locals call it)

We spent a 24 hour period at our good friends’ beach house in Beach Haven, New Jersey.  It was a jam packed day of beach combing, wave jumping, celebrity sighting (only a Real NJ Housewife), crabbing, and drinking with good friends.

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And, I’m not sure if you’ve ever crabbed before, but let me tell you that the ghetto way of crabbing works just as well as the real way.  The ‘real way’ being with fish as bait.  The ‘ghetto way’ being with a raw chicken leg and a can of tuna with holes poked in it.

Overall, a wonderful way to spend a Saturday in August…

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Toronto Moments

13 07 2009

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Blue Jays, Caesars and Poutine. That’s Canada Eh?

19 06 2009

We found ourselves crossing borders and venturing into the familiar territory of Toronto last weekend.  Let’s just say, in comparison to Detroit, Toronto is a whole different world.

I think this was one of the first times I really looked at Toronto and saw the great city that it is.  Driving into the city skyline, I could feel the excitement of the city, the buzz in the air, and the taste of Spicy Caesars and steaks from the Keg on my tongue.

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We stayed in a hotel downtown in the Entertainment District and there was this little alley club right beside the hotel that I had a strange sense of deja vu every time we walked by.   I can’t quite put my finger on it, but I feel like I’ve danced the night away in this little alley club in the past.

As always, we had no plans, but a very busy schedule.   Within 30 minutes of walking out of the doors of our hotel, I had a hair appointment booked, we had tickets to a Toronto Blue Jays game, we investigated an event marketing program and we had plans to watch free cirque du soleil shows all weekend.

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We sat 6 rows up behind third base.  We had great seats.  So great, that we were in the middle of all of the heckling.   Baseball fans are really original with their heckling insults.  These fans had a great dislike for the players shoes.  The heckling went something like this, “Porter, Porter, over here.  Nice shoes Porter!  I like your shoes, where did get them?  Nice bum Porter“.   Very creative.

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We attempted to go kayaking in the harbour one morning, only to find out that all of the kayaks had been donated to Paddlefest, and there were none available.  This conversation just so happened to be right beside probably 50 kayak slips…..that were full.  But, apparently there were no kayaks available.

All in all, a great weekend.  Dinners with my sister and her boyfriend, and a special brunch of homemade crepes.  An afternoon on a waterfront patio with friends and ice cream for dessert.  And waiting with hundreds of other people to see the Luminato Cirque du Soleil finale at an outdoor stage with the CN tower in the background.

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Sailing: Pure Ectasy Interrupted by Moments of Terror

3 06 2009

Below you see blue skies, almost turquoise lakewater, fluffy white clouds and sails full of wind.  Looks like a dream doesn’t it?

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Read the title of this blog once again!

If I was a nail biter, my nails would have been bitten.  While Nathan was scrambling around the boat in his bare feet, taking photos and loving life, I was sitting a little nervously, sussing out the situation.  Let’s remind everyone that I don’t know how to swim, so sailing on this 25 foot boat is definitely out of the ordinary. 

We put the boat to the test and kept sailing it into the wind to see how far the boat would keel over, how much wind would fill the sail, and how constant the boat’s safety is – when the boat has had too much, the sails will dump the wind and the boat will right itself. 

We spent 6 hours out on the water, and just as we were heading back in and taking down the sails, well… let’s just say we put on a show for the fisherman.  Somehow we were all on one side of the boat.  Somehow we had both the jib sheet and the main sheet pulled tight as we steered into the wind.  Somehow we were broadsided and the boat tipped so far over that the rails were in the water.  Loyd was up front laughing and yelling instructions (he didn’t seem too worried and thought this was an excellent teachable moment), Lynn was staring right into the water in disbelief, Nathan jumped to the other side of the boat to try to balance some of the weight and get control of the helm, and I found myself sitting on the floor in the middle of the boat thinking ‘where is my life jacket?!!’

All in all, we loosened the sails, the boat righted itself, we brought the sails in, and we spent another 2 hours on the boat while we were parked in the marina, going over the day’s events and relaxing with a cold drink and some m&ms.

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Sailing Lessons 101

29 05 2009

Lesson #1:  In sailing, all ropes have names

Lesson #2: Do not turn left when you mean to turn right

Lesson #3:  Try not to flip the boat over the first time you sail it and scare everyone half to death

The Rocky Comfort has landed, and we went out for our first sailing trip last night.  At the Jefferson Beach Marina, Nathan, Lynn, Loyd and I successfully got the boat into the water, into our slip and sailed our first sail in the Great Lakes.  It was a fun first trip out, and I may have scared everyone when I took the helm and we keeled over so much that it looked like I knew what I was doing.  It turns out that when Loyd says, “this boat will NOT flip over. When it keels over too much, the sail will dump out the wind and right itself” he’s right, and I definitely put it to the test. 

Cheers to the Rocky Comfort!

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My first step onboard.